"Laughter is the sunlight of the soul"

I want to use tonight's entry to recognize a very special person. A person you would never guess what they were like till you got to know him. His name; John Payne.

Did you ever dream of someone that would tell you the honest to god truth? Some people don't because they would rather be lied to, but why would you want to hear lies? John is a person who will straight up tell you the truth. Is that not the way people should be? We are co-workers at a local hospital. I've always said 'hi' to him, but I never actually got to know him until changes in our department. I began working closely with John in December of 2007.

I was kind of intimidated by him at first, mostly because he is very tall! I'm only 5'5 so you can imagine he kinda towers over me, hehe. I was always curious about him because he always seemed so sweet and quiet. Turns out he's actually a little shy! Once I put my fear aside, it was easy to get to know him. I found out quickly that he comes out with the truth right away. I can ask him anything and he will give me the most logical answer- no B.S. It's sad that most people in our department are very closed minded, so they assume that he is rude.

That is not the case though! I have girl friends who are honest just like that, and its because lots of people don't want to hear the truth that they shun this trait. Honestly if you ask me, I'd much rather hear the truth than be lied to. Wouldn't you? Now John is also a kidder- but he's so damn funny! Aside from the jokes he makes; he also imitates people and has the freakin funniest facial expressions! Just being around him makes me laugh! He also does this one funny thing with his mouth. I think when he's thinking hard about something, he starts biting the inside of his mouth - its actually cute! Because his lips like move left and right, its too funny! I don't see many other men do that, so thats a unique trait of his, lol.

He's very techy and knowledgeable about computers. He helped me find the parts for my BF's computer at very decent prices! He's into gaming, especially World of Warcraft (WoW). The internets largest online game. So if your a gamer of WoW, John would love to have you in his guild! I can't wait to get my PC back from my BF so that I can play with John and fight in Karazan! The game rules! If you're interested in a free-trial, see the link above. Look John up, I'm sure he'd help ya out!

Now, even though he's a kidder, joker, gamer and weight trainer, he's also a very sweet person. I think this is the side that most people fail to see. He's sharing and very caring. I've never met any guy, including my BF, that likes to give so much. I've talked to him on several occassions about different personal things, and I like to hear his opinion because he is honest. One thing I really appreciate is that he won't let me give up. He's a tested, true friend. Real friends don't let you give up. Or eat doughnuts when you're trying to lose weight! :P He is weight training me so he helps me out.

He is a GREAT conversationalist. We can talk just about anything and have a lengthy and interesting conversation! Most guys kinda like to clam up and just agree with you. He puts in his opinion and gives awesome feedback! Wouldn't it be nice to have someone to talk to and enjoy the conversation? I know I like it!

There is so much more about John that people don't realize. They assume, and my motto for that is: Assumption is the worst F***-up you can make. Why assume someone is they way they are before you get to know them? I know that line from Shrek , hehe, but its true! Don't assume someone is a certain way before you actually get to know them better. You'll be surprised at what you find. I truly believe John is gold. He's a catch ladies! Whatever girl ends up dating him will not regret their decision.

Want to know more about John Payne? Visit his Myspace Page and give him a shout!

Thanks and goodnight for now!

- Nita